tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17502329032073820122024-03-13T18:14:42.221-05:00Patience Under FireZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.comBlogger90125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-11977870234707271802011-08-06T22:52:00.005-05:002011-08-06T23:26:44.388-05:00A Pat on the BackSometimes there are moments when you think I must be doing something right, give yourself a pat on the back.<br /><br />And lately the kids have been doing things that make me feel I earned a pat on the back. <br /><br />As a Mom there are certain personality traits I hope my children will possess, I'd like them to be affectionate, compassionate, sympathetic, funny, honest and well-rounded individuals. And so much more. So the other day when my little girl was carrying her monkey around the house and I heard her say: "Why are you scared monkey? It's okay I've got you." I smiled and thought I must be doing something right.<br /><br />When we go shopping together and its just us girls, MC often asks if we can get something for HP, now its usually a toy that she wants but not always, still I love that's she's thoughtful and wants him to get him something. I must be doing something right.<br /><br />Sometimes when HP wakes up in the morning or from his nap he'll start crying, MC will say "Mommy I need to go check on Hunter, he's crying."<br /><br />Yesterday on our way home from running errands, HP was hungry and beginning to fuss a little and without prompting MC says "It's okay Hunter, we're almost home." That's the first time I've heard her say that, previously she would make faces and noises to try and make him laugh.<br /><br />Later as she was playing in her room, I heard her say " Amen. Mommy loves you, Daddy loves you....etc." (Our nightly bedtime ritual) Then she closed the door and said monkey's tired so I tucked him in. Awww....<br /><br />When I was tucking her in last night she requested that I lay down with her so I climbed into bed. After a good 20 minutes it was obvious she was wired and not going to sleep, unless she thought I was asleep. So I closed my eyes...about 10 minutes later she lifted my arm and gave me her monkey, five minutes after that she patted me on the arm and then several minutes later she took my hand and rubbed her fingers back and forth as if she were trying to soothe me. And I thought what a sweet little girl we have, must be doing something right.<br /><br />Famous people leave legacies, there are sometimes statues made to remind us of their significance in history, maybe they write a book of memoirs or maybe they're a musician that's impacted multiple generations with their music, many of us make grand plans to try and make the world a better place, thinking it has to be something big to make a difference. And maybe it does, I don't know. In the past when I was younger I used to dream big, Olympic swimmer, best selling author, successful sports journalist. I never once dreamed of being a Mom or even thinking about the importance of that role. <br /><br />But now when I see my kids sharing without being encouraged to share, giving hugs or kisses on their own initiative, thinking of someone else when shopping, etc. If I can have a positive impact on my children and be a strong role model then I couldn't ask for a better legacy.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-39789207773041522562011-08-01T13:50:00.003-05:002011-08-01T14:23:39.154-05:00Two Kids, 1 Mom and a field trip to the DoctorI dread going to the doctor's office. I don't like going for me but when I have to take one of the kids because they're sick, well it's like a field trip. If one child is sick and the other is well then by the time we're home they're probably both sick with different illnesses and if they're both sick and I'm alone with them then we're probably creating our own side show.<br /><br />Today it was me vs. them. I was wrestling and trying to corral my 2.5 year old and almost 1 year old while answering loads of questions for both the nurse and the doctor. But before we were called back a lady with her child and another lady exited, calmly, orderly and without a trail of toys, pacifiers or sippy cups in her wake. I assume it was the child's grandmother that accompanied them and was helping carry the diaper bag and loading and unloading. <br /><br />Its times like that when I'm hit with a wall of emotions, missing my Mom, wishing we had family that lived nearby and could help, jealousy and then shame because I'm jealous. <br /><br />I'm tough, lots of people over the years have called me a "survivor" but there are some days when you just don't want to be tough. Some days I want to be weak and have help, today is one of those days.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-80434145350688923142011-06-25T14:46:00.003-05:002011-06-25T14:49:40.450-05:00Fun with Step 2One of things we're lacking at our house are good, quality outdoor toys. I love Step 2 and Little Tikes but we really need to clean out the yard and make room. But we could use our garage and that way the kids would be in the shade. I'm hoping to win the Step 2 Sand & Water Fun Farm so the kids will have something to play with. Check it out here : <a href="http://http :www.momsbalancingact.com/2011/06/fun-in-sun-12-step2-sand-water-fun-farm.html">A Mom's Balancing Act</a> or <a href="http://www.step2.com">Step 2</a>.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-21117902875340096532011-06-25T11:45:00.007-05:002011-06-25T11:50:04.330-05:00Little Tikes Rocks!I'm entering blog contests again as I try to learn to juggle the kids and time for reading my favorite blogs. Today I'm entering to win a <a href="http://www.littletikes.com">Little Tikes</a> Cozy Truck from <a href="http://www.momsbalancingact.com">A Mom's Balancing Act</a>.<br /><br />Be sure to head over to her blog for your chance to win. This would make an awesome birthday gift for my 2 year old monkey.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-58976158068412779062011-06-25T10:24:00.003-05:002011-06-25T11:04:22.986-05:00Groundhog DayDo you ever feel like every day is Groundhog Day? You know the Bill Murray movie. where every day was the same until he got it right?<br /><br />I'm beginning to feel like I live Groundhog Day everyday. I wake up, get the kids, change them, feed them, starts doing laundry, then clean up the mess made from eating breakfast, play with them, break up fights, check FB for adult conversation, more laundry, more dishes (didn't I just wash those?), time to fix lunch, play dates, naps, and repeat.<br /><br />We do a wide range of activities from day to day, sometimes play dates with friends, shopping for groceries or running errands, swimming, etc. but almost every day feels like the day before. The dishes and laundry are NEVER completely done and the house always needs to be picked up. There are always diapers needing to be changed and kids that want to eat.<br /><br />Does anyone else ever feel like they're living the same day over and over again?ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-12539328286666915252011-06-20T14:06:00.005-05:002011-06-22T14:40:14.542-05:00Boys vs. GirlsEvery time I change HP's diaper I think about how different boys are from girls, and no I'm not talking about anatomy. <br /><br />Our little girl, monkey butt, would lay still and stare at her hutch while we changed her diaper, no fighting the process, wiggling etc. But Mr. Moose aka HP, well changing him is like wrestling an octopus or an alligator (words spoken by sitters and friends) but yet so on point. <br /><br />Monkey butt could play for hours and entertain herself with little encouragement or interaction. Mr. Moose is curious and into everything, after a little exploring he either wants my undivided attention or he wants to be held. <br /><br />I'm not complaining, I love my kids and I love that they're different. And I think a lot of their differences have nothing to do with gender but rather they're two individuals displaying their traits and personality. So sometimes I wince when someone says HP is all boy or he's just acting like a boy. Okay...so if MC does the same thing she's acting like a boy?<br /><br />Now at 10 months HP is crawling, cruisin' and climbing and I can tell I have two active children that will be getting into a LOT of trouble. I'm pretty sure HP will be walking any day now and running as soon after that as possible. YIKES!<br /><br />As I'm writing this, I looked to see what the Moose was up to and he'd crawled on top of his Leap Frog music table and was between it and his activity cube!ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-71059124132575782762011-06-18T15:01:00.002-05:002011-06-18T15:13:28.560-05:00Should I Feel Guilty?We haven't taken a family vacation in 2.5 years. Well, unless you count our short weekend trip to San Antonio with the kids. (I don't really count a three hour drive and two nights in a hotel as a vacation) And we haven't had a vacation without the kids in four years.<br /><br />As a matter of fact we haven't been away from one or both of our kids for 24 hours, EVER! When I was in the hospital delivering HP, we were away from MC but I wouldn't count being in labor with our second child as being kid free.<br /><br />So I want a vacation, but more importantly I NEED a vacation. And at this point it could be something as just two nights in a hotel without the kids. Even 24 hours of being free of responsibility of anyone but myself would be a nice break. But should I feel guilty for feeling this way?<br /><br />I love my children more than anything, I do but I also feel like a vacation or small break from them would re-energize me and they would benefit from that too. Sometimes I feel like we're the only ones that haven't had a break or a vacation. Most of my friends have parents that take their kids for date nights or for weekends here and there while they take a quick trip, we aren't that fortunate. <br /><br />Unfortunately, my husband's father has passed and his mother is physically unable to watch the kids. My mother is deceased and well we wouldn't even consider leaving the kids with my father even if he offered and my brother is in medical school and over one thousand miles away. So the only way we'll even get to take a quick trip is to pay someone to watch the kids, and no not just any someone but someone we really trust so we can enjoy the break.<br /><br />Is it alright to want a break and some alone time with my hubby? Can we realistically go away for a weekend and enjoy ourselves without feeling guilty or worrying the entire trip? Are we the only ones that have this issue? <br /><br />My husband has promised me a trip away sometime this summer and I really hope we're able to make it happen.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-58705666531019386972011-06-17T15:55:00.004-05:002011-06-17T16:31:34.610-05:00What Did She Say?Our little girl, MC aka monkey butt has gone from saying very little to talking up a storm. Of course this is great news but its also scary because I never know what she's going to say. <br /><br />Yes, I know that what she hears will be repeated. Therefore, we're trying to censor our conversations and reduce our use of certain expletives. But that being said we don't really use a lot of curse words to begin with. I'm starting to realize though that we say certain things more often and we're not even aware of what we say.<br /><br />Some of MC's new favorite expressions are: "Oh Dear!" (not something I ever say so I'm not sure where she got this one from), "I don't think so Mommy!", "Crap" (apparently I say this more than I realized), "Trust me", and "Are you sure?" <br /><br />Today she hit me with a new one, HP was crawling around and had gas, MC says "HP made a fart!" He made what? NO I have not said this before. And so I was shocked but also trying to hide the fact that it was cute and funny, although mainly because we were home alone and because she used the word "made" as if he'd been in the workshop assembling it. <br /><br />A few days ago we were looking for a can of soup in the pantry and one of our storage containers fell, as soon as it hit the floor MC says "CRAP". Because I'd almost said it myself but she'd just beat me to it, I wanted to laugh but also wanted to correct her but since I couldn't keep a straight face I just pretended like it didn't happen. Its tough being a parent, even harder being a good one.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-70518547833815746372011-06-15T21:40:00.005-05:002011-06-15T22:03:07.610-05:00My DadAlright, so let me start this post by saying I'm not bragging and in no way, shape or form am I proud of the situation. I would change it if I could. But I've wished for change, prayed for change, held out for change and I think at this point it's just one of those things I'm going to have to accept in life. I'm talking about my relationship with my Dad. <br /><br />There are times when I wonder how I turned out normal, okay well normal is relative and to some maybe I'm not "normal" per se, but I think I could at least get most people to agree I'm well adjusted. But I am grateful that I'm able to write about this as a parent to two fantastic children and not behind prison bars or stuck in an asylum and pointing my fingers at my Dad and blaming him for my circumstances. Of course on the flip side of that I'm not sure he should get much credit for where I am now either. <br /><br />Maybe I'm being too harsh, maybe some of the unpleasant memories of have of my childhood and the embittered, confrontational relationship with my Dad has helped me get to where I am, even if only motivating me to be a different person than him.<br /><br />I'm writing this tonight as I was shopping online for a small gift for my husband from the kids for Father's Day. His card is already done. This will be the second year in a row he's getting a custom made photo card with pictures of him and the children. You see I love cards and I'm really funny about choosing the right card for the person. And so I've always had a really tough time choosing the right Father's Day card for my Dad.<br /><br />Most of the cards talk about the great relationships between father and daughter, or the fun trips you've shared, or the lessons you learned from him, maybe how he can fix anything that's broken, or is a good listener, likes to fish, hunt, etc., you know what I'm talking about. Problem is, none of that applies to my Dad. Maybe someone should have created the "These are all the things I wish you were to me, but I love you anyway" card. I'm serious and yes I know that's sad but it's true.<br /><br />Sometimes more than anything I just wanted a "normal" Dad. I often told myself that he'd change, if I just accomplished more he'd be more proud and love me more. I'd use his criticism and negativity to motivate me to study harder, work longer hours and persevere. But regardless of my actions or accomplishments they were never good enough and he never changed. <br /><br />I'm sad to say that while I tried to convince myself it didn't matter, it does matter. And now that he's a grandfather, well I hoped he'd be different. I hoped my kids would have a relationship with him and feel loved. Instead, he never tells people he's a grandfather. He doesn't call and ask to talk to the kids, e-mail and ask for recent photos or come to visit unless it can benefit him in some way. <br /><br />My husband is a good father to our children. He holds them, changes them, plays with them, takes them to the park and tells them he loves them. I'm grateful that they will both know their father's love. So while I dread Father's Day because I can't find the right card for Dad and wonder should I even send one, now I'll try to focus more on making sure my children's Dad has a wonderful day.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-31239357622492344572011-06-14T16:40:00.003-05:002011-06-14T16:46:47.143-05:00Things I was never toldSome things don't mix well, like oil and water, beans and men, beer and liquor. Some things should never go together like fire and gasoline or corn and babies or children that still wear diapers. And apparently, among other things no one told me, garlic, spinach, raisins, blueberries and well I'm sure you probably know of some others. Now I guess, since I'd never changed a diaper in my life before my daughter that if I did know what happened when a child ate some of these things, well it probably would have been good birth control.<br /><br />I'm looking forward to the day my children are potty trained...I'm not looking forward to potty training my children! I will say if you are super hungry and considering eating things that you shouldn't in order to lose weight, well just change one of these diapers I'm talking about and your appetite will diminish significantly.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-360379308582481312011-06-11T21:52:00.003-05:002011-06-11T22:19:24.317-05:00In My Next HouseSo do you ever sit around and think "in my next house we'll have ....." ? I wouldn't say I sit around and think about it, I have two children under 3 and so I don't have time to sit. But I'm frequently having thoughts of what my next house should have to make life easier at home.<br /><br />One of the things I'd like is a gigantic bathroom, HUGE, like a spa. I want it to be luxurious with a large shower that has the full body jets and a bench, room for two people to shower comfortably without knowing the other is there. I dream of separate toilets, each behind a door for privacy. I can keep mine clean and stocked and it will NEVER smell like my husband's dirty feet or worse. And it must be soundproofed so if I need to go somewhere and scream from frustration at my child's latest stunt I have a place. I'd like a small, cozy fireplace by the giant tub with jets and a TV that can be seen while soaking. <br /><br />The master bedroom, wouldn't it be cool if it could be separate from the rest of the house but still convenient? I want our next house to have 2 master bedrooms, one that can be used as an in-law suite or guest room. But totally away from each other and away from the children's rooms. It doesn't have to be grand but roomy and with an area for a reading nook. But I do want it to have lots of windows, hopefully with a water view, (private lake would be nice) and it needs shades that will completely darken the room and operate via remote control. I'd love to have a balcony or patio off our master, something intimate where we can enjoy a drink or read our e-mails. <br /><br />Kids rooms should be a good size and wired and equipped with video cameras so we can keep an eye on them. (Not in a creepy way, in a I just heard something crash, are they alright or did it come from another room or outside) It would be nice to have lots of built-ins. <br /><br />Outside, I'd like to have a large yard with a nice big deck, an outdoor kitchen, a beautiful pool with a built-in table and stools, a hot tub, waterfalls and room to swim laps.<br /><br />The kitchen, now most people would think about the kitchen first, but not me because while I want it to be up to date and gorgeous with the newest and coolest appliances, I don't cook that much so its one of the last things I think about. <br /><br />Now if only we could move into this "next house" immediately. What do you wish for in your next house?ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-60706092403925748922011-06-10T16:44:00.003-05:002011-06-10T16:49:57.456-05:00Here, There and Everywhere!Where am I? Where was I? What did we do today? Do you ever feel like the Internet and social networking sites suck you in and you just disappear? Nothing gets done, laundry, dishes, trash starts piling up and then you're left wondering where the day went. <br /><br />I think I was in a cycle for a while where I would hop on the PC and between surfing and playing and feeding the kids,time just vanished. But this week has been different. We were here, there and everywhere! We went to play dates, went swimming at the neighbor's house, shopped at the Outlet mall, Costco, Target, had lunch with friends, had dinner with friends and numerous other activities. This morning we had plans to get together with friends but I was so tired and the kids were still sleeping so we canceled. <br /><br />I know that I definitely like getting the kids out of the house as it makes the day go by faster, they seem happier and I feel more productive but I just need to find the right balance.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-66149241540566606872011-05-29T17:35:00.000-05:002011-05-29T17:35:28.692-05:00I Just Won 27 Swag Bucks on www.swagbucks.com<a href="http://swagbucks.com/?cmd=sb-register&rb=1221119&cmp=7&cxid=11111-Search&fb=true&rwrd=27&curl=www.swagbucks.com&deno=27">I Just Won 27 Swag Bucks on www.swagbucks.com</a>ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-80646510217012755662011-05-07T17:40:00.003-05:002011-05-07T17:55:36.133-05:00I'm a MessThis week has been hard, difficult, long .....you get the picture. Wednesday night I went out with a few friends and had a drink and some much needed girl time and I thought the distraction would make things better but sometimes you just can't outrun what's bothering you.<br /><br />I've tried to focus on the positive, I have two great, healthy children and we have a roof over our heads. But even when thinking about the good things there's a dark cloud that follows me and makes it difficult to enjoy the sunshine.<br /><br />I'm so fortunate to have a good support system of friends in place. But at the same time, right now, I just want my Mom. I know that I could tell Mom all of my problems and she wouldn't judge me or berate me for a bad decision, she wouldn't offer a solution every 5 minutes but she's just listen. And when she did offer advice it would seem as if it were my own idea. <br /><br />Why am I falling to pieces this week? Its been 5 years since Mom passed away. Why is the pain still so raw?<br /><br />There are people in Alabama that have lost everything and literally had the rug pulled out from under them. I have friends experiencing hardships worse than my own. I'm healthy and independent so why do I feel so sad and hopeless right now? <br /><br />If I could just have one more conversation with Mom, how would it go? What would I say? What would she say? There are so many things I wish I'd done differently. I think if I could talk to Mom I'd tell her that I'm so glad I changed my mind and have children of my own. And yes there are so many things I just didn't understand but do now that I'm a parent. I'd say thank you for all the sacrifices you made for us because I know there were countless sacrifices. Thank you for showing me that love is unconditional.<br /><br />But more than the thanks, more than the apologies I just want to have a normal conversation with my Mom. What do I do when McKenzie has a rash? Why doesn't she eat macaroni and cheese and what should I feed her for lunch? What was my bedtime at this age? Should she go to preschool? I want to go shopping with my Mom and have lunch. I want her to come over and read the kids the same stories she read me as a child. <br /><br />I love you Mom and I miss you.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-9644519825373615322011-01-13T23:41:00.004-06:002011-01-14T02:08:45.720-06:00Running in CirclesWow, for over a month now I feel like we've been running in circles! December was a month that was jam packed with challenges, activities, sickness and almost anything else you can imagine. Most days I felt like I was on a treadmill at the highest incline and there was no emergency stop button, oddly enough I even had the image that I was the hamster on the wheel going round and round with no hope of getting off the wheel.<br /><br />What happened? Where do I begin? The first weekend in December we were at a birthday party, correction, two toddler birthday parties back to back on a Saturday and then we raced home to watch a football game...so we were busy, so what, right? Well that was the beginning of our month of illness.<br /><br />The day after the birthday party I had chills, fever, diarrhea and nausea. So I quarantined myself to our bedroom, put my hubby in charge of the kids and drank lots of fluids. I thought that would be enough to keep everyone else well and I would recover quickly. Two days later I was better but our daughter was sick. Another 24 hours and our son now had the stomach bug. By the time the kids were well I had caught it again, aghhhh!<br /><br />That unfortunate episode which helped me lose 4 pounds in 2 weeks also helped me regain those 4 plus 2 more. Then MC got sick with croup which was followed by her first ear infection. Let me just warn you right now, 2 year olds and steroids don't mix well, at all. I'm not kidding! Then MC was well but then HP, our 4 month old, got croup and just to make things more interesting he also got an ear infection. <br /><br />We spent Christmas Eve visiting our neighbors in shifts while one of us stayed home with the sick kids. Unfortunately, we had to spend New Year's Eve in shifts too. Then my brother came into town for a visit and his first introduction to our 4 month old. But as luck would have it he and his fiance' became sick too. <br /><br />At times, I was thinking we should return all of our Christmas gifts and use the funds to build a bubble. But now its January and we're currently all well and as time allows I'm hoping to tell you about our nightmare experience with the Christmas tree infestation, how we had Christmas on a shoestring budget and how much I'm enjoying our new toy the Xbox 360 with Kinect.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-68077020752537579682010-12-16T20:56:00.007-06:002010-12-16T21:03:03.726-06:00The Best Gift I Ever Gave<p><a href="http://bit.ly/theSWAGGapp"><img src="http://clevergirls.typepad.com/web%20sundance%20ad7-02.jpg" alt="" /></a></p><br /><p><em>SWAGG is a free mobile app <a href="http://bit.ly/theSWAGGapp"> (download here)</a> that lets you shop smarter using your mobile phone. Buy, send or swap SWAGG GIFTS and organize your old school plastic gift cards.</em></p><br /><p><em>For every download of the app between now and Dec. 31, 2010, SWAGG will donate $1 to <a href="http://www.standup2cancer.org">Stand Up To Cancer (SU2C) </a>, up to $125,000.</em></p><br /><p><em>Clever Girls Collective and SWAGG are sending a pair of movie fans to the Sundance Film Festival! <a href="http://bit.ly/theSWAGGapp">Download the SWAGG app </a>and then visit the <a href="http://wildfireapp.com/website/6/contests/82357"> Ultimate SWAGG Getaway Sweepstakes site </a> to enter to win a trip for two to the Sundance Film Festival. Entry deadline is January 3, 2011, 11:59pm, PST.</em></p><br /><br /> I LOVE gift giving and it doesn’t matter the reason or occasion for the present. <br /><br /> I love buying and giving gifts for birthdays, anniversaries, Christmas and especially “no reason” gifts. My Mom was one of the best at buying and giving gifts and she taught us by example that some of the best gifts to give and receive are those given for no reason. She also taught us that it’s not the price of the gift but the time, effort and thought that goes into the present that matters most. <br /> <br /> Christmas is one of my favorite times of the year because of the “journey.” I love shopping for the perfect gifts for my husband, my brother and now my children. So much thought goes into every gift big or small including the stocking stuffers. I spend time researching the gifts, browsing catalogs, window shopping, online shopping and driving all over to find the best presents. And while I dread wrapping the gifts I look forward to seeing the look on the person’s face when they open their gift. <br /> <br /> This year money is tight for my family and instead of a mountain of gifts spilling out from the under the tree, there will only be a few gifts some of them more of a necessity like clothing or shoes than fancy toys or gadgets. But I’m excited to see my two year old’s excitement on Christmas and I know she’ll enjoy unwrapping her presents. And thanks to my parents I know that the best gifts are those that can’t be wrapped because the best gifts for a child or anyone else are the gifts of time and love. <br /> <br /> I know this because the best gift I ever gave anyone wasn’t a toy or a gadget and it wasn’t wrapped in shiny paper. When I was a child we would drive downtown to church every Sunday morning and on our drive we always passed an old man on a park bench huddled up in a worn out coat. <br /><br /> One Sunday it was incredibly cold outside and as we drove past I told Mom and Dad I was worried about the man freezing. So we drove to Bojangles, a chicken restaurant and bought a biscuit and large steaming cup of coffee and then drove back to the bench and gave it to the gentleman. <br /> <br /> I can’t really describe the feeling I experienced. There wasn’t any joy in shopping, no shiny paper or fancy bows, no anticipation of having found the perfect gift and waiting for the person to open their present but instead there was the look of surprise and appreciation that I haven’t really seen anyone express before or after that experience.<br /> <br /> This gentleman wasn’t on the corner begging for money for food, he wasn’t seeking sympathy or expecting anything for free but he was truly thankful. After that Sunday it became a weekly tradition for us, every Sunday on our way to church we’d go by and get a sausage biscuit and coffee and drop it off to the gentleman on the bench. And every time he looked shocked and was so thankful. <br /> <br /> Now I’m looking forward to this Christmas and spending Christmas day with my two children, my brother and his fiancé’ and my husband. I’m excited to get the gifts wrapped and under the tree and to assemble our daughter’s gift on Christmas Eve. But <br /><br /> I know that the best gifts we can ever give our children are those of time and love and hopefully we can teach them that the best gift they’ll ever give is to help someone less fortunate or someone in need as my parents gave us.<br /><br />SWAGG has partnered with non-profit Stand Up To Cancer (SU2C). For every download of the app between now and Dec. 31, 2010, SWAGG will donate $1 to SU2C up to $125,000. Awesome, right?! Visit the SU2C site for more info http://www.standup2cancer.org/<br /><br />More info about Stand Up To Cancer (SU2C)<br />http://www.standup2cancer.org/<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><p><em>Learn more about the coolest new app that revolutionizes the whole shopping, gifting, and gift card-organizing experience and <a href="http://bit.ly/theSWAGGapp">Download the SWAGG app to your iPhone or Droid.</a> I was selected for this sponsorship by <a href="http://www.clevergirlscollective.com">Clever Girls Collective,</a> which endorses <a href="http://www.blogwithintegrity.com">Blog With Integrity.</a></em></p>ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-58810961476224306552010-11-18T22:18:00.004-06:002010-11-18T22:22:50.525-06:00The Quinny ZappHere we go again, this time I'm trying to win a Quinny Zapp! I'm a stroller addict, I know I have a problem. But anything that makes my life easier.... This stroller is so cool its modern, sleek and lighweight.<br /><br />Thank you The Bragging Mommy for this awesome giveaway!<br /><br />Check it out here: <a href="http://www.thebraggingmommy.com/2010/11/17/brag-worthy-christmas-quinny-zapp-stroller-review-and-giveaway-219-value/">The Bragging Mommy</a>ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-57397055373091234242010-11-18T18:39:00.004-06:002010-11-18T18:45:42.856-06:00X-Box 360 KinectWhat do you want this Christmas? Is there one item you just can't live without? For me that would be the X-Box 360 Kinect system. I'm dying to win one because we can't afford to buy one and this would make an awesome surprise for my husband and a nice treat for me! And if I don't win it then we won't have one because like most of America, its just not in the budget!
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<br />So I'm crossing my fingers, my toes and hoping I get lucky!ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-90578139347417213462010-11-17T23:11:00.005-06:002010-11-17T23:17:31.813-06:00HearthSong Cottage Playhouse on Girl Gone MomWell the holiday madness has arrived and so I'm spending my free time, what little free time I have entering blog giveaways and trying to win some cool prizes for Christmas presents for our kids.<br /><br />One of the giveaways I've entered is the HearthSong Cottage Playhouse on Girl Gone Mom, you can enter here: <a href="http://girlgonemom.com/?p=777">Holiday Gift Guide: HearthSong Cottage Playhouse ARV $80 {Review & Giveaway}<br /></a> <br /><br />I can only imagine the fun we could have with MC playing in this awesome playhouse!ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-83174774051250550762010-11-01T18:10:00.003-05:002010-11-01T18:13:59.978-05:00House Party Party Re-Charge, Relax and Girl Talk<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_mMcNs6D_ICc/TM9JX4Tmj4I/AAAAAAAAACw/Rq-50z0HAos/s1600/DSC_0598.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_mMcNs6D_ICc/TM9JX4Tmj4I/AAAAAAAAACw/Rq-50z0HAos/s320/DSC_0598.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5534723141662052226" /></a><br />About nine months after my little girl was born I learned that the key to survival was getting time for myself and especially girl time. When I can get out or stay in with other moms I realize I'm not the only person facing the same challenges: endless diapers, teething, extra pounds, mountains of laundry and everything else. And the other thing that helps me survive: caffeine and a LOT of it.<br /><br />So I was really excited to be chosen to host the Hamilton Beach Brew Station party for House Party. This new coffeemaker is so awesome! I don't have to worry about my children grabbing the glass carafe and breaking it. (its already been broken) But with the Brewstation, there's no carafe and one less thing for me to worry about. The coffee never tastes burned or scorched and there's less to clean (and that makes everyone happy.) <br /><br />This Saturday night I'm getting together with some of my favorite girlfriends to share coffee, desserts, play some games and have some girl chat. I know they'll love the Brewstation as much as my family does. Thank you to Hamilton Beach and House Party for giving us a reason to re-charge, relax and have some girl talk!<br /><br /><br /><br /><a href="http://www.houseparty.com/party/375899">House Party Party Re-Charge, Relax and Girl Talk</a>ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-19602170355217645622010-10-21T02:00:00.003-05:002010-10-21T02:09:03.458-05:00Brain FogSo how often do you experience brain fog? You know that feeling you get when its kind of like you're on autopilot but at the same time eveyrthing feels like it takes more effort than normal.<br /><br />Today I felt like I was stuck in brain fog, very thick brain fog. I was at the computer and trying to multi-task: eat, check e-mails, watch the kids, etc. but I couldn't really function. So I tried chugging caffeine, eating protein and even just backing away from the computer but nothing really kicked it.<br /><br />Sometime this afternoon it lifted but I'm not really sure how or why. I can usually attribute a symptom like this to lack of sleep but I've rested pretty well the past three days, thanks to Benadryl and the husband watching the kids while I stayed locked away in the bedroom fighting a sinus infection. <br /><br />There were lots of things I wanted to accomplish today, cleaning the house, catching up on the laundry that accumulated while I was resting, watching shows on the DVR, etc. but with the brain fog almost nothing was actually started and finished. <br /><br />And now with it beign 2 AM here I'd like to be sound asleep so I can wake up refreshed and take on some of the tasks I just mentioned but I made the colossal mistake of letting my husband fall asleep before me and now he sounds like a hibernating bear in the dead of winter and I'm writing instead of tossing and turning. Too bad that cleanign the house and washing clothes would wake everyone else up, otherwise I'd be kicking some butt on the chore list right now.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-66901338114520722712010-10-13T22:34:00.003-05:002010-10-13T22:41:18.466-05:00A Long DayToday was a long day. One of those days when every time I wasn't watching my toddler, she was doing something or getting into something she wasn't supposed to be doing. And at times it felt like she was intentionally pushing me to my limits. Could it be?<br /><br />What did she do? What was she doing? It would be easier to tell you what she wasn't doing, behaving, its simple as that. And to make it even more challenging she kept saying "Daddy" all day long.<br /><br />But now she's in bed, my two month old is napping on the couch and I'm catching up with the DVR. Now if I can just get motivated to work out too....ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-38017243310003111172010-10-06T14:35:00.004-05:002010-10-06T15:41:47.873-05:00Dreaming of a Dream VacationSponsored By<br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://thirdparty.fmpub.net/placement/355982?fleur_de_sel=[timestamp]"></script><br /><br />Cheerios® is giving you the chance to win a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, your ultimate family vacation. As part of a paid promotion for their <a href= http://r1.fmpub.net/?r=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.cheerios.com%2Flove%2FSweepstakes.aspx&k4=584&k5={banner_id}"> “Do What You Love” Sweepstakes</a>, Cheerios® is sponsoring my post today about what my ultimate family vacation would be. Read mine, <a href="http://r1.fmpub.net/?r=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.cheerios.com%2Flove%2FSweepstakes.aspx&k4=584&k5={banner_id}">Enter the Sweepstakes</a> for a chance to actually win your own fantasy family trip or one of a bunch of other great prizes.<br /><br />Who needs a vacation more than a new Mom? Now granted things are a little easier since this is my second child and I knew I'd be facing endless mountains of laundry, diapers followed by feedings followed by more diapers and dirty bottles on every counter top and table. But there are days when just one day of sleeping in late, being able to shop or run errands alone and taking a shower longer than 10 minutes would qualify as both a dream and a vacation. But when I do sleep and even when I'm awake I still dream of a "real" vacation.<br /><br />When I dream of a vacation, my dream is of a vacation without our children even though I know we'd miss them terribly, it involves a trip to a beautiful tropical island, staying in a luxury villa located on the ocean with a breathtaking view. I want a private chef, maid service, a private pool and hot tub with a butler that will bring us cold margaritas and fruity alcoholic drinks, sleeping in late and dinners on the patio watching the sunset while eating a five course meal.<br /><br />And since my husband and I never had a "real honeymoon" I want a combination of romance and adventure in a setting as close to paradise as possible. We'd spend our days sightseeing, snorkeling, playing on jet skis and swimming in our private pool at our luxury villa. And in the evening we'd take a yacht out and cruise around the islands while enjoying dinner, dancing and a hot tub on the boat. We could enjoy couples massages and facials and afterwards spend time shopping where the locals shop. <br /><br />While I love the Internet and cable television, my smartphone and facebook and blogging and all of the other gadgets we have, I'd truly like to have a vacation from it all. I don't want to be reminded of the high crime rates or the problems of the world, no text messages or online games as distractions, no Ipods, etc. Wouldn't it be great to escape the "real world" for a little while?<br /><br />My ultimate dream vacation would be to have time to reconnect with my husband without the everyday distractions, in a beautiful location where we could create memories that we could share with our children. <br />Don't forget to enter the <a href= http://r1.fmpub.net/?r=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.cheerios.com%2Flove%2FSweepstakes.aspx&k4=584&k5={banner_id}"> “Do What You Love” Sweepstakes</a>, for a chance to win your own ultimate family vacation. I was selected for this sponsorship by the Clever Girls Collective, which endorses <a href="http://blogwithintegrity.com">Blog With Integrity</a>, as I do.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-66535573462887221122010-10-04T13:48:00.004-05:002010-10-04T14:11:06.881-05:00Looking Back, While Moving ForwardI remember my parents and other adults saying "the only thing constant is change." As a child I didn't quite understand what that meant but as an adult and now as a parent of two children I'm reminded of this on a daily basis.<br /><br />Two years ago today I was pregnant with our daughter and in the ICU with my husband and his family, standing by my father-in-law's bedside praying for him to recover. He passed away that afternoon. One week later to the day I gave birth to our daughter. We were so hapy to have a healthy baby girl but so sad that she would never get to meet her Papa and he'd never be able to hold her. <br /><br />And then a year ago today we rushed to the ER with our little girl. She'd been sick for 3-4 days and wasn't improving but getting worse. After learning she had bacterial meningitis and the most dangerous strain we were in shock. We were standing in the same hospital where we'd lost my father-in-law, just one year later and the thought of losing our first and only child on that day in that place was unbearable. <br /><br />Shortly after learning MC's diagnosis we were transferred via ambulance to Texas Children's Hospital. I'd never been in an ambulance before and hope I'll never have to ride in one again. I was lying on the bed with MC on my chest, wrapped in several blankets to keep her warm with an IV in her arm. She was lifeless as we weaved in and out of traffic racing to the hospital.<br /><br />We spent a week in the hospital with our little girl. And I know we were lucky, I know we were blessed and I feel like we received a miracle. As far as we know she has fully recovered without any damage from her illness.<br /><br />While we were in the hospital MC had her first taste of McDonald's and celebrated her first birthday and now we're just one week away from her second birthday. It seems like a lifetime ago not just a year.<br /><br />The loss of my mom and father-in-law mean we must tell our children stories of their grandparents, show them pictures and tell them of their love. And from our experience with MC's short hospital visit, when we say our prayers we pray for the children that can't be healed, for the kids that live in the hospital most of the year battling cancer and other diseases, for their parents experiencing the helpless feeling that we felt firsthand. And we remind ourselves not to take time with our kids for granted. Those are just a few of the things that have changed for us the last two years.<br /><br />I hug my kids and tell them how much I love them several times a day. If you haven't experienced a severe illness with your child, think of those that ahve and remember them n your prayers at night.ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750232903207382012.post-71121533933109160232010-09-29T00:47:00.003-05:002010-09-29T00:57:58.085-05:00Fall Season PremieresWhat is everyone watching this fall? During the summer I feel like we live at Blockbuster and spend too much time watching movies we've previously seen on the movie channels, just waiting for fall and the return of our nightly programs.<br /><br />I can remember when I knew what day of the week it was by seeing what was on TV, Friends, ER, LA Law, etc. This season I know Grey's Anatomy means its Thursday and NCIS means its Tuesday but I'm still learning a lot of the new programs and trying to match them with the nights they're on.<br /><br />At the same time I hesitate to get involved in a new drama or comedy because lately it seems like every time we find a new program we enjoy its canceled after either the first season or several episodes. And that's frustrating. And in most cases these are good programs that just disappear. What happened to Dirty Sexy Money? How about Lipstick Jungle? Where's The Unit? <br /><br />Then there are programs that I don't enjoy and figure they won't make it and yet they're still around . I'm kind of surprised that recently the USA network has developed great shows like Royal Pains and Covert Affairs. I just hope they realize they have winners and continue to keep them on the air.<br /><br />Currently, I look forward to seeing how this season continues to develop. Some of my new favorites include: The Undercovers, The Defenders, Chase and Blue Bloods. What are your favorites this fall?ZanyMominTXhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15964287275086052304noreply@blogger.com4